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Husband wants a divorce what do you do

Husband wants a divorce what do you do?

The first question that will come to your mind is WHY, WHY, WHY!  Your Husband wants a divorce.

Is he having an affair? Is he running away from legal troubles or money lenders? Maybe he is trying to protect you?
If he tells you he is having an affair. Then it is simple. Now all you have to do is evidence gathering to favor you in your divorce court case.

But irregardless you need to get to the truth, which is to get Proof and  Evidence, Evidence, Evidence.  Just in the event case, the divorce is going to happen.

Win-Spy Software will help you in getting to the truth and gaining evidence, You can use this evidence to your favor in divorce court.  Especially if he was cheating.

Remote Install Spy

Win-Spy will:
1) Give you access to ALL his saved Chrome Usernames and Passwords. With this, you can access all his Facebook, Gmail, Social Profiles, or any accounts he has visited on Google Chrome.
2) It will monitor ALL his Calls on his mobile phone and SMS. And GPS Location he visited or he is in real-time.
It will record Surrounding Conversations from his phone.
3) It will monitor ALL his Desktop / PC activities.

This is the best and cheapest tool for evidence gathering. Only $49.95.  It is much cheaper than paying Private investigators thousands of dollars to get the same this task done.

Evidence will help you in:
1) Property rights
2) Child custody
3) Alimony
4) Ect…

child-support divorce

But you need to get the Evidence when you can. When he is still staying with you.

The next step would be:
1) Cancel all joint accounts you have, and cancel the car insurance you have – you do not want to be liable if he gets into a wreck. You are both legally on the policy for each other’s actions.
2) Get a lawyer and present the Evidence/Proof you have. This can favor your case.
3) Record your Emotional Distress and ‘SUE’ both parties for Infidelity. Different states have different laws. But in general, you can sue the parties involved in Infidelity leading to your divorce. This is where the spouse’s bank statement comes into play and is very important. To prove your distress. This is where Win-Spy comes into play. It has both a Keylogger and Chrome Password tool, So you can access his bank records. And how much he was spending on his infidelity.  PS see articles below: Sue both parties in event of Cheating and causing the divorce.

Bank Records

In most cases, the Law will favor the person who was cheated on. From this, you stand a better chance of Winning in Property rights, Child Custody, Alimony, ect.

But gathering Evidence is the key.  And Win-Spy is a superb tool to achieve this.

The bottom line for most of us is how am I going to live and Money is the key. 

Bottom Line:

If the marriage cannot be salvaged then give your husband a divorce and move on. Don’t Sacrifice your emotions for someone who does not want you. Move on.

Embrace yourself, You will go through waves of emotions, from freedom to happiness to loneliness to sadness and cherry on top is the uncertainty about your future.

It drains a lot of emotional energy from you. I can’t even begin to imagine how it is for people with kids with time-sharing and custody battles. In the States, divorce is also extremely expensive.

But it might be better to bear the pain than be in an empty, loveless relationship and wondering if this is what the rest of your future is gonna be like.

It is not the end of the World. It probably is a blessing in disguise.  Like in my friend’s wife’s case.  She is divorced now.  But he ex was cheating on her and was a gambler.  If she was with him she would be broke.  But his new wife is realizing the gravity of having him. 

The next thing you will need to do is to Secure yourself Financially click here.

 

 

5 Ways to Financially Prepare for a Divorce

5 Ways to Financially Prepare for a Divorce

5 Ways to Financially Prepare for a Divorce in Infidelity

According to USA Divorce Rate Statistics
20% of marriages end in the first 5 years. 32% end in the first 10 years. 48% of spouses who married before the age of 18 are likely to divorce within 10 years. 25% of spouses over 25 years of age get divorced within 10 years.

Needless to say in most events, divorce leaves both spouse penny less. The key to this is that both couples were not prepared for divorce and did not do their financial preparation work prior to the divorce.

Ok, I am going to dive straight into the topic on 5 Ways to Financially Prepare for a Divorce.

 

1) Get Solid Evidence of Infidelity that caused the divorce. Evidence, Evidence, Evidence. This is very very important to prepare for the divorce. This could be your ace card in getting your way. Be very, very patient and do the homework. Chances are if you smell a rat then there probably is one.

Divorce Evidence

The first thing to gather evidence of Infidelity is divorce.

Spy Software. Get spy software called Win-Spy from www.win-spy.com. This could be the best first alternative. Since it only costs $49 a Year and you can monitor both the cell/mobile phone and PC or Remote PC. You can monitor 10 remote pc and 5 mobile phones for only $49 a year. This is the cheapest first choice in evidence gathering.

Win-Spy comes with a Keylogger and Chrome Password Extractor. Chrome Password Extractor will extract all stored usernames/passwords from Chrome Browser. This tool will allow you to access all your spouse’s emails and chats etc. This tool alone will allow you a lot of access to the evidence you need.  View Sample Report Of Password Extractor – Click Here.

This is much, much cheaper than hiring a private investigator.

Stealth Mobile Spy and PC Spy Software by Win-Spy

Private investigator. Get a private investigator or do it yourself. You could very easily follow your spouse via GPS live location and take pictures as evidence. Private Investigators can be very costly. And not worth the money if you only have a hunch of Infidelity. This could run to thousands of dollars. This is only practical only if your hunch was right or after reviewing your spouse’s mobile data or pc data for evidence.

2) What is Contested and Uncontested Divorce

Uncontested divorce – the parties agree on all the major issues

Contested divorce – the parties do not agree on major issues and will rely on the court to determine the outcome

In any case, if you have good evidence, then it does not matter if it is an Uncontested divorce or a Contested divorce. Either your spouse will agree with you, or the courts will most likely favor your case.

In an Infidelity case, courts will in most events favor you the person who was cheated on.

Child Custody. This could probably/easily allow you to win child custody. Of course, if you have child custody.

a) You can easily claim Child Support.
b) Claim your children as dependents on your Income Tax statement and get a bigger refund check.

child-support divorce

Property. This could also easily allow you to get a positive outcome on the property (house and car) you hold jointly. Finding a new place and paying rentals as a divorcee is no fun these days.3) Spouse Bank Records. This is very, very important – keep records of your spouse’s bank records. This will show what they are spending on their Infidelity (hotels, rooms, trips, dining). This could solidify your case on what you will receive. You could argue on what you are receiving is much less than what the spouse was paying for the affair.

Dividing properties after divorce

3) Spouse Bank Records. This is very, very important – keep records of your spouse’s bank records. This will show what they are spending on their Infidelity (hotels, rooms, trips, dining). This could solidify your case on what you will receive. You could argue on what you are receiving is much less than what the spouse was paying for the affair.

Bank Records


4) Open Your Own Bank Account. Open a New Bank Account. And get your Credit Cards. You want to avoid being taken by shock when your spouse moves out and leaves you out to dry. Move some money to your bank account via cash for a rainy day.


5) Record your Emotional Distress and ‘SUE’ both parties for Infidelity. Different states have different laws. But in general, you can sue the parties involved in Infidelity leading to your divorce. This is where the spouse’s bank statement comes into play and is very important. To prove your distress. PS see articles below:

emotional distress in a divorce

My Spouse Committed Adultery — Can I Sue For Emotional Distress?
https://www.divorceistough.com/blog/my-spouse-committed-adultery-can-i-sue-for-emotional-distress/

Yes, You Can Sue Someone for Breaking up a Marriage
https://www.brides.com/sue-for-alienation-of-affections-1102874

Secure Child Custody in a Divorce when Spouse is Cheating
https://win-spy.com/secure-child-custody-in-a-divorce-when-spouse-is-cheating/

3 Best Ways How to Secure Property in a Divorce
https://win-spy.com/3-best-ways-how-to-secure-property-in-a-divorce/

Divorce from Infidelity is a very painful thing to go through. Your trust is destroyed, your heart is cracked and you feel abandoned by the very person who said: “I DO”. While it is a very bad thing. Sometimes it could be better to work things out with your spouse. Knowing the truth beforehand might be better before things go out of hand. It could also save your marriage.

Disclaimer: I am not a litigator of any kind. I hope our post on 5 Ways to Financially Prepare for a Divorce in Infidelity has enlightened you. But, PS Install Win Spy on PCs or Networks you own. Please check your local laws when installing a monitoring app on your PC.